What is love?
Love is a strange feeling to someone who can not be expressed in words.
"Love is beautiful, love is crazy, love is cruel, love is sad, love is blind, love is feeling to like someone very much, love is a feeling of affection, love is a feeling to have, and blah .. blah .. blah ..." Which one is true?
Not just one that may be true, because all that mentioned above are love. Love is an abstract sense, because it has no form but can be felt.
Why is there love?
Love is a gift from God, human is given a feeling of love to survive, to love each other, nurture each other, keeping people from extinction, and we should be grateful for having a sense of love.
How to love and be loved?
If you love someone, then you have to understand what he/she needs.
for men "love" is a fun pleasure, sex, pride, recognition from others, etc.
but for women "love" is an affection, attention, protection, liability, etc.
so ...
If you are a man, give your women affection, attention, protection, liability, praise, living and sacrifice (time, money, personal enjoyment, responsibility), and everything that would make her happy.
If you're a woman, be a woman to be proud of, fun, understanding, sincere, patient, and loyal.
Broken heart
Basically love is beautiful and gives passion in humans to survive in this world.
However, everything must be in pairs, no day no night, there is love there is sadness, and it is a reasonable balance.
the pain of love is usually caused by ego that is not satisfied and disappointed because the desire is not achieved as expected.
Treating the pain of love is very difficult and may take a long time, sometimes a person who is being broken hearts become desperate and do stupid or reckless.
Anguish, sometimes affecting the nerves and can change a person's personality and some even mad :S
Tips to cure a broken heart
- Get closer to God
- Positive thinking and patience, rest assured that this is the best way that God prepared for you.
- Sincere, get rid of ego, if you really love her/him, then let her/him take the best path for her/him.
True love
"True love is not for your self, but true love is to make her/him happy no matter what, even if she/he does not love you, and although she/he will not be yours. True love is a sincere sense of love that only give love without expecting a reply from someone you love."
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