To get the attention from a person (male or female), you will sometimes act cool like idols. But all your efforts do not succeed, he / she still did not pay attention to you.
Then you ask yourself? what is wrong with me? i don't look attractive?
Get someone's attention is not easy, and if you often fail to impress someone, it does not mean you are not attractive or handsome / beautiful, maybe someone you love has had its own love, or he / she may not be the right person for you. but you must not despair if you really love someone.
Impersonating someone else that you think is cool is also not a wise attitude, because the style of other people sometimes do not match when you apply and can even look funny or ridiculous.
So what should you do?
If you see a famous person, an idol, you may wonder, why they are loved by many people? whether because they are beautiful / handsome?
The answer is "no", because so many people who are more beautiful / handsome from artist, but they are not as fortunate and as famous as the artist, which means beautiful / handsome does not guarantee the person to be attractive / famous.
As another example,
There are millions of websites on the Internet, but why only a few of the websites that popular or successful?
The answer is ... Successful websites are "fun, provide benefits for others, unique (different than any other website) and has content that is not found on other websites"
There are many websites that are similar to popular websites, such websites are also fun and provide benefits similar to the famous website, but why they do not success?
The answer ... because the concepts they use are not unique, or they just follow the concept of a website that has been successful with its unique services.
Conclusion
To be an interesting person you do not have to be pretty / handsome, but to be an interesting person you have to be kind to others, be useful to others and unique (you must have a unique personality, different from others)
Every human is born different, none are alike.
If you be yourself (be nice and better than anyone else), then you will be a unique, attractive and will be loved by many people.
be yourself
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